看見孩子的亮點—詩篇127:3［兒女是耶和華所賜的產業, 所懷的眙是他所給的賞賜.］所羅門未曾從人的肉身尋找生命的根源, 而是承認了神的創造事工, 相信掌管那生命的主體亦是神, 故能告白兒女是從神而得的產業. 因此, 父母作為僕人而精心養育教導神所託付的產業, 兒女便可作為神的產業, 成為真正的賞賜與祝福. 父母應鼓勵孩子堅持下去, 為自己的決定奮鬥到底. 在挫折中, 逐漸懂得保持優雅的態度和尊重他人. 也了解到保持心境穩定, 與追求不斷進步, 才是最重要的課題. 親愛的朋友, 父母是孩子人生最好的導師. 父母不論小孩有多少缺失, 總是要看見孩子的可能亮點. 一直相信孩子, 引導孩子尋找人生的興趣. 支持孩子做的決定. 使孩子不斷進步, 發光發熱. 聖經上關於父母教養孩子的原則, 箴言1:8提到説[我兒, 要聽你父親的訓誨, 不可離棄你母親的法則］又説疼愛兒子的隨時管教. 這便是提醒作父母的一定要有智慧. 孩子是一張白紙, 你選擇將什麼放在孩子生命裡, 你的價值觀你所作者, 會決定孩子的動向, 決定他的一生格局. 親愛的朋友, 專業技能只要努力都可以學得會, 行行都可以出狀元, 但一個人的品德, 態度和性情, 卻是很難改的. 人的本性是在成長過程裡, 慢慢深扎在人的裡面, 是家庭父母塑造了孩子一生的成敗. 今天願上帝祝福每一位作父母母, 使你們都有從上帝而來, 教養兒女的智慧. 引導兒女走在蒙福的路上, 成為兒女的祝福. 上帝也必要賜福每一個家庭. 讓每一位兒女, 在家中被愛被成全.
The highlight of seeing children – Psalm 127:3 [Children are the inheritance from the Lord, and the bosom is his reward.] Solomon did not seek the source of life from the human body, but recognized God’s work of creation , I believe that the main body in charge of that life is also God, so they can confess that their children are the inheritance from God. Therefore, if parents, as servants, carefully nurture and teach the inheritance entrusted by God, the children can become God’s inheritance and become real Rewards and blessings. Parents should encourage their children to persevere and fight to the end for their own decisions. In the face of setbacks, gradually learn to maintain a graceful attitude and respect others. They also understand that maintaining a stable state of mind and pursuing continuous improvement are the most important issues .Dear friends, parents are the best mentors in their children’s life. No matter how much their children are missing, parents always have to see the child’s possible bright spots. Always believe in children and guide them to find their interests in life. Support children’s decisions. Progress, shine and shine. The Bible’s principle of parenting, Proverbs 1:8 says, “My son, listen to your father’s instruction, and do not forsake your mother’s law.” And it says that he who loves his son disciplines at all times. This is the Remind parents to be wise. A child is a blank piece of paper, what you choose to put in your child’s life, your values, and your author, will determine the child’s movement and the pattern of his life. Dear friends, professional skills As long as you work hard, you can learn it, and you can become a champion by doing everything, but a person’s character, attitude and disposition are difficult to change. Human nature is in the process of growth, and it is slowly and deeply rooted in the human being. Family parents shape the success or failure of a child’s life. May God bless every parent today, so that you have the wisdom from God to raise your children. Guide your children on the path of blessing and become a blessing to your children. God also It will bless every family. Let every child be loved and perfected at home.