在家裡, 我們都忘記説謝謝—-哥林多前書7:3［丈夫當用合宜之分待妻子；妻子待丈夫也要如此.］弟兄啊！稱讚你的妻子吧！這是很簡單而且是花費最少, 功效最大的. 但可惜卻是夫妻最少做的一件事. 所以弟兄你上次感謝讚美你的妻子是什麼時候, 而姊妹你上次讚美妳的丈夫是什麼時候. 你真的為你的配偶感謝, 以有她為夫妻跟恩典嗎？有一位妻子抱怨她的丈夫, 寧可去幫別人修馬桶, 而家裡一個燈泡壞了, 三個月他都不動. 你知道為什麼嗎？因為丈夫從妻子那裡感受到的是他做那些都只是應該做的. 而做了之後得不到半句感謝的話和感謝之情. 而他幫隔壁的老太太修馬桶, 老太太會非常感謝他. 會讓他覺得很有價值, 被欣賞被肯定. 在婚姻裡面當我們把對方做的一切, 視為理所當然的時候, 愛的意願, 做的動力, 就會逐漸消失. 做妻子的如果妳對丈夫的上班工作, 只是覺得是他的責任是應該, 男人本來就應該養家, 那他的動力只剩下責任與應該. 而同樣丈夫如你對你的妻子在家裡所做的一切, 你也以為是應該是責任, 我在外面這麼辛苦, 那她家𥚃當然應該要把家裡搞定來, 那她的動力, 也只剩下責任跟應該. 沒有一個人會為一個不斷挑剔, 又沒有回饋感謝之心的人, 還能夠繼續付出他的愛. 更沒有一個人, 會在不斷付出後, 而所得到的只是不滿和埋怨的時候, 他還能心甘情願的繼續付出. 一個埋怨的人總是看別人還沒做, 或做得不夠好的. 做為基督徒, 你一定要改變你的眼光. 一個埋怨的人, 他的特質就是總是看別人還沒有做的. 或是做的不夠好的. 而一個感謝的人, 是看別人已經做的, 他會珍惜已擁有的, 把它視為恩典與祝福.
At home, we forget to say thank you – 1 Corinthians 7:3 [The husband should do the same to his wife, and the wife should do the same to her husband.] Brother! Praise your wife! This is very simple and the least expensive and most effective. But unfortunately it is the least thing couples do. So brother, when was the last time you thanked and praised your wife, and sister, when was the last time you praised your husband? Time. Are you really thankful for your spouse for having her as husband and wife and grace? A wife complained to her husband that he would rather go and fix someone else’s toilet when a light bulb in the house broke and he wouldn’t move for three months. Do you know why? Because what the husband feels from his wife is that what he does is only what he should do. And after doing it, he can’t get a word of thanks and gratitude. And he helps the old lady next door to repair the toilet, the old lady will thank him very much It will make him feel valuable, appreciated and affirmed. In marriage, when we take everything the other does for granted, the will to love and the motivation to do it will gradually disappear. As a wife, if you are right The husband’s work and work, he just thinks that it is his responsibility and should, and the man should support the family, so his motivation is only responsibility and should. And the same husband as you do to your wife at home, you also think that It should be the responsibility. I work so hard outside, so of course her family should take care of the family, then her motivation is only the responsibility and the responsibility. No one will be constantly picky for a person without giving back the heart of gratitude A person can continue to give his love. And no one will continue to give willingly when he keeps giving and all he gets is dissatisfaction and complaints. A person who complains always sees that others have not Do it, or do it well enough. As a Christian, you must change your perspective. A person who complains, his characteristic is to always see what others have not done. Or not done well enough. And a The person who is grateful looks at what others have done, he will cherish what he has, and regard it as grace and blessing.