愛的生活方式—-約翰一書4:8［神就是愛.］這句經文闡述愛是唯一的真理, 擁有愛就能找到神, 因為神就是愛. 以下列出十種愛的生活方式：甲. 總是看見他人身上最好的一面. “當我只專注於別人的好處, 我們之間的關係也更為親密和融洽.” 腓立比書2:3［只要存心謙卑, 各人看別人比自己強.］”你看待世界的方式, 就是你的世界.” 所以, 當我們學會從正面看待別人時, 不但可以與他們人建立更融洽的關係, 同時也促使生活周遭圍繞著愛的氛圍. 乙. 讓寛容成為習慣. “不寛容的心, 是個狹隘的監獄.” 只有寬容, 才是自由的大門. 正如以弗所書4:2-3所說[凡事謙虛, 溫柔, 忍耐, 用愛心互相寛容, 用和平彼此聯絡, 竭力保守聖靈所賜合而為一的心.］時刻保持寛容的心態, 便是讓神與我們合而為一. 因為主的靈在哪裡, 哪裡就有自由. 丙. 即便對方不請求饒恕, 也要饒恕. 馬太福音16:14, 18:21-22 [你們饒恕別人的過犯, 你們的天父也必饒恕你們的過犯. …得罪我, 我弟兄得罪我, 我當饒恕他…不是到七次, 乃是到七十個七次.］意思是要不斷的選擇饒恕他人. 這種態度看似軟弱, 其中藴含極大的智慧與恩典. 因為我們放下, 不是因為別人值得被饒恕, 而是我們值得去過更好的生活. 讓天父為你伸寃. 恩待你的生命. 丁. 與他人發生衝突時, 要盡力使彼此和睦. 詩篇34:14[要離惡行善, 尋求和睦, 一心追趕.] 這代表使人和睦是一種善行. 一心追趕則意味著我們要付出努力及行動. “在紛爭中, 最重要的不是誰對誰錯, 而是要找到和平的解決方法.” 尋求和睦不需要講道理, 而是表達願意與對方維繫愛的關係. 現代人打民事官司, 最高的指導原則是和解. 這也是我做律師近40年來最大的心得. 戊. 一心一意祝福別人. 馬可福音10:44［在你們中間, 誰願為首, 就必作眾人的僕人.］擁有高貴的靈魂是懂得願意付出自己, 不計回報的祝福他人. 因為那正是主耶穌為我們所做的一切. 當你看到別人的需要, 在未要求幫忙的情況下, 也盡力滿足他人的需要—-路加福音6:38［你們要給人, 就必有給你們的, 並且用十足的升斗, 連搖帶按, 上尖下流地倒在你們懷裏.］不只在奉獻上, 日常中, 我們更該竭力尋找幫助他人的機會. 一位積極助人, 付上自己勞力和資源的人, 肯定擁有一個富足的靈魂, 並且活出受人敬愛的生命. “幸福不是你得到的, 而是你付出的.” 庚. 誠心為他人禱告—-提摩太前書2:1［我勸你第一要為萬人懇求, 禱告, 代求, 祝謝.］為他人代禱是首先且重要的事, 並且可以讓上帝特別開心. “不論你處在哪個階段, 只要你為他人祈禱, 你就不會是孤單的.” 記得常為人禱告, 也記住有人在為你禱告. 辛. 每天閱讀聖經—-詩篇119:105［神的話是我腳前的燈, 路上的光.］上帝透過聖經顯明祂的旨意. 經文不是給你的知識增添壓力. 而是給你的靈帶來力量. 有力量才能勝過黑暗, 使我們每一天行在光中. 𡈼. 向那些不信神的人展示基督的愛—-馬太福音5:16［你們的光也當這樣照在人前, 叫他們看見你們的好行為, 便將榮耀歸給你們在天上的父.］所謂好行為, 不需要你幹大事. 而是盡力做好你力所能及的每件小事. 癸. 保持喜樂. 盼望與謙卑的心—-腓立比書4:4［你們要靠主常常喜樂. 我再說, 你們要喜樂.］羅馬書15:13［但願使人有盼望的神, 因信將諸般的喜樂平安充滿你們的心, 使你們藉著聖靈的能力大有盼望.］馬太福音11:28[我心柔和謙卑, 你們當負我的軛, 學我的様式, 這樣, 你們心裏就必得享安息.] 三段經文有個共通點, 必需要靠著耶穌才能活出喜樂, 盼與謙卑這三種性情. 神兒女要天天定睛於主. 好讓基督的能覆庇你, 在人的軟弱上顯得完全.
Lifestyle of Love – 1 John 4:8 [God is love.] This verse explains that love is the only truth. If you have love, you can find God, because God is love. The following is a list of ten kinds of life of love. Way: A. Always see the best in others. “When I focus solely on the good of others, our relationships become closer and more harmonious.” Philippians 2:3 [But in humility of mind, each of you People see others as better than themselves.] “The way you see the world is your world.” Therefore, when we learn to see others in a positive light, not only can we build a more harmonious relationship with them, but we can also make our lives surrounded by An atmosphere of love. B. Let tolerance become a habit. “An unforgiving heart is a narrow prison.” Only tolerance is the door to freedom. As Ephesians 4:2-3 says [Be humble and gentle in all things, Be patient, forgiving one another in love, and striving to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.] To always maintain a forgiving attitude is to allow God and us to be one. For where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is There is freedom. C. Forgive even if the other person does not ask for forgiveness. Matthew 16:14, 18:21-22 [If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you your trespasses. …sins I, my brother sins against me, I must forgive him…not seven times, but seventy seven times.] It means to constantly choose to forgive others. This attitude may seem weak, but it contains great wisdom and Grace. Because we let go, not because others deserve forgiveness, but because we deserve to live a better life. Let Heavenly Father avenge you. Be gracious to your life. D. When you have conflicts with others, try your best to make peace with each other. . Psalm 34:14 [Turn away from evil and do good, seek peace, and pursue it with all your heart.] This means that peacemaking is a good deed. Pursuing with all your heart means that we have to put in effort and action. “In a dispute, it is not who is most important. It’s not about who is right or wrong, but to find a peaceful solution.” Seeking peace does not require reasoning, but expresses the willingness to maintain a loving relationship with the other party. When modern people fight civil lawsuits, the highest guiding principle is reconciliation. This is also why I am a lawyer. The greatest experience in the past 40 years. E. Bless others wholeheartedly. Mark 10:44 [Whoever wants to be first among you must be a servant of all.] Having a noble soul is a blessing that knows how to give of yourself without expecting anything in return. Others. Because that’s exactly what the Lord Jesus did for us. When you see the needs of others, do your best to meet the needs of others without asking for help – Luke 6:38 [Give, and it will be given to you, with all your might. Fight, shake and press, and fall into your arms with the top and bottom down.] Not only in dedication, but also in daily life, we should try our best to find opportunities to help others. A person who actively helps others and devotes his own labor and resources, You must have a rich soul and live a life that is respected and loved by others. “Happiness is not what you get, but what you give.” Geng. Pray sincerely for others – 1 Timothy 2:1 [I urge you First of all, make supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings for all people.] Praying for others is the first and most important thing, and it makes God especially happy. “No matter what stage you are in, as long as you pray for others, you Then you won’t be alone.” Remember to pray for others, and remember that there are people praying for you. Xin. Read the Bible every day—Psalm 119:105 [The word of God is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.] God through Reveal His will through the Bible. The scriptures do not put pressure on your knowledge. They bring strength to your spirit. Only with strength can we overcome darkness and enable us to walk in the light every day. 𡈼. To those who do not believe in God People show the love of Christ – Matthew 5:16 [Let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.] The so-called good deeds do not need to be You do big things. But try your best to do every little thing that you can do. Gui. Stay joyful, hopeful and humble in heart – Philippians 4:4 [Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say, rejoice. ] Romans 15:13 [May the God of hope fill your hearts with all joy and peace through faith, so that you may abound in hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.] Matthew 11:28 [My heart Take my yoke upon you, meekly and lowly, and learn from me, and you will find rest for your souls.] The three passages have one thing in common. It is necessary to rely on Jesus to live out the three dispositions of joy, hope and humility. Children of God must keep their eyes on the Lord every day, so that the power of Christ can cover you and become perfect in human weakness.