哥林多前書13:7-9 [凡事包容, 凡事相信, 凡事盼望, 凡事忍耐, 愛是永不止息.]. 這是夫妻相處最重要的綱領. 包容, 相信, 盼望與忍耐, 是愛永不止息的基本要素. 愛永不放棄, 永不衰殘, 永不消失, 永不終止, 就像上帝永遠的生命, 因為愛乃是上帝生命的彰顯. 愛字最早見於金文, 其本義是喜好, 愛好, 意為對人或事有深摯的感情. 后來引申出愛情與愛惜. 說文解字解釋愛為行走的樣子, 意為疼惜呵護對方, 為之奔波辛勞. 古詩四首之三”結髮為夫妻, 恩愛兩不疑.” 夫妻的相處需要經營成長, 大部分夫妻很少分享內心深處的情感與需要. 夫妻很少做深處心靈的談話, 二人沒有單獨好好談心. 夫妻關係的經營是在於生命的成長. 生命的成長會帶來情感的親密. 結婚久了, 生活變得乏味平淡, 是因為生命停頓, 生命沒有更新. 夫妻每人都要做一位成長的人, 注入愛與情感的聯結, 婚姻也必然可以變為愈來愈甜美. 愛情是人生的縮影, 夫妻從情人, 轉變到愛人, 再成為親人, 我們怎麼生活, 就會怎麼愛. 反之亦然. 波斯詩人魯米説”傷口是光進入你內心的地方. 你的任務不是尋找愛, 而只是尋找並發現你已在內心構築起來的一切反抗它的障礙.” 愛就是那永不止息, 從上帝而來的光.
0079—1 Corinthians 13:7-9 [Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things, love never fails.]. This is the most important guideline for a husband and wife relationship. Tolerate, believe, hope and endure, It is the basic element of love that never ends. Love never gives up, never fades, never disappears, never ends, just like God’s eternal life, because love is the manifestation of God’s life. The word love first appeared in the inscription, Its original meaning is liking, hobby, which means having deep feelings for people or things. Later, it is extended to love and cherishing. Shuowen Jiezi explains love as walking, which means cherishing and caring for each other, and working hard for it. The third of the first is “the marriage is a husband and wife, and there is no doubt about love.” The relationship between husband and wife needs to be managed and grown, and most couples rarely share their deep feelings and needs. Couples rarely do deep conversations, and the two are not alone The management of the relationship between husband and wife lies in the growth of life. The growth of life will bring emotional intimacy. After a long time of marriage, life becomes dull and dull, because life has stopped and life has not been renewed. People who grow up, inject love and emotional connection, marriage will inevitably become more and more sweet. Love is the epitome of life, husband and wife from lovers, to lovers, and then to relatives, how we live, we will love how we live. On the contrary The same is true. The Persian poet Rumi said “The wound is where the light comes into your heart. Your task is not to find love, but only to find and discover all the obstacles you have built in your heart against it.” Love is that which never ends. , the light from God.