箴言25:11［一句話説得合宜, 就如金蘋果在銀網子裡.］這節經文使用了美麗而卓絕的隱喻, 銀網中的金蘋果, 不僅有迷人的外表, 更具有美妙無比的味道與馨香. 説話合宜的人必能感動人心. 本節金句指出與人和樂相處的祕訣. 要認識到自己是做錯事的壞人. 自認為好人, 反倒容易爭吵不休. 自認為是好人, 容易把過錯推給對方, 使雙方堅持不下, 爭吵不休. 反之, 如果能夠彼此承認過失, 就懂得照顧禮讓對方. 當衝突發生時, 我們的反應和說出口的話, 反映出我們是一個怎樣的人. 聖經上有一句話説到”智慧人的口説出恩言, 愚昧人的嘴呑滅自己.” 傳道書10:12. 可見我們看自已是怎樣的人, 説怎麼樣的話, 是多麼的重要. 當我們將對方所做的一切視為理所當然時, 愛的意願就會逐漸消失. 懂得包容, 禮讓對方, 就能祝福彼此之間的關係. 這種不計較輸羸, 互相體諒對方的行為態度, 正是出於愛的表現, 讓我們一起學習在關係中, 成為一位懂得表達愛與感恩的人. 特別是向最親密的家人與朋友, 說出你對他們, 愛與感恩的話語. 相信上帝必會祝福你, 使你跟人有美好的相處, 並且享受關係上所帶來的祝福. 對華人而言, 要勇於打破”愛你在心口難開” More Than I Can Say的傳統束縛, 要學習雷根總統做一位善幽默的溝通家, 做一位偉大的溝通者. 用奉獻, 寛容, 感恩和愛帶給家人及朋友最大的安全感.
Proverbs 25:11 [A word well-spoken is like a golden apple in a silver net.] This verse uses a beautiful and splendid metaphor, the golden apple in the silver net not only has a charming appearance, but also has A wonderful taste and fragrance. A person who speaks well will be able to move people’s hearts. The golden sentence in this section points out the secret of getting along well with people. Recognize that you are a bad person who does wrong. A good person is easy to push faults to the other side, so that the two sides cannot hold on and quarrel endlessly. On the contrary, if they can admit their faults to each other, they will know how to take care of the other side. When a conflict occurs, our reactions and words reflect how we are. There is a saying in the bible that “the mouth of the wise speaks kind words, but the mouth of the fool destroys himself.” Ecclesiastes 10:12. It can be seen that we see what kind of people we are, what kind of words we say, and how much Important. When we take what the other person does for granted, the will to love gradually disappears . Knowing how to be tolerant and courteous to each other can bless the relationship. Attitude, it is the expression of love, let us learn together to be a person who knows how to express love and gratitude in relationships. Especially to the closest family and friends, say your words of love and gratitude to them . Believe that God will bless you so that you can get along well with others and enjoy the blessings brought by relationships. For the Chinese, it is necessary to have the courage to break the tradition of “Love you are hard to say in your heart” More Than I Can Say To be restrained, we must learn from President Reagan to be a good and humorous communicator and a great communicator. Bring family and friends the greatest sense of security with dedication, generosity, gratitude and love.