重塑良善的人際關係—-約翰壹書4:18-19［愛裏沒有懼怕. 愛既完全, 就把懼怕除去, 因為懼怕裏含著刑罰, 懼怕的人在愛裏未得完全. 我們愛, 因為神先愛我們.］如果人生重來, 你會希望像你現在這個樣子嗎？人際關係的答案在就在於你怎麼看自己. 這會影響到你的行為模式. 你與人的相處, 自我形象是對自己的認知跟感受. 但是很可惜, 很多時候我們對自己的認知跟感受是錯誤的, 是扭曲的. 常常因為受到別人的傷害, 造成你對自己的扭曲. 自我形象影響我們的一言一行以及人際關係. 首先我們應該重建你內在的安全感. 只有主耶穌能重建你裡面的安全感, 找回愛人跟被愛的能力. 因為你要想成為好領袖, 好父母, 好配偶, 好的夥伴, 你要先懂得怎麼愛自己, 欣賞自己, 和接納自己. 你能夠愛自己, 你才慬得愛別人. 你對自己嚴苛的人, 對別人也嚴苛. 你會欣賞自己, 你才會欣賞別人. 健康的自我形象是多麼的重要. 你沒有辦法給別人沒有的東西. 你裡面沒有安全感, 你就無法帶給別人安全感. 只有你裡面有愛, 你覺得愛, 你喜歡自己, 你才會真正的, 從心裡去喜歡別人. 當你有了一個健康安全的自我形象, 你就能夠重塑良善的人際關係.
Rebuilding good relationships – 1 John 4:18-19 [There is no fear in love. Perfect love casts out fear, for fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love. We love because God first loved us.] If life were to start all over again, would you wish to be like you are now? The answer to interpersonal relationships lies in how you see yourself. This will affect your behavior patterns. When you get along with others, self-image is the perception and feeling of yourself. But unfortunately, many times our perception and feeling of ourselves are Wrong, is distorted. Often because of being hurt by others, it causes you to distort yourself. Self-image affects our words, deeds and relationships. First of all, we should rebuild your inner sense of security. Only the Lord Jesus can rebuild your inner self. Because you want to be a good leader, a good parent, a good spouse, a good partner, you must first know how to love yourself, appreciate yourself, and accept yourself. You can love yourself , you have to love others. People who are strict with yourself are also strict with others. You will appreciate yourself, and you will appreciate others. How important a healthy self-image is. You can’t give what others don’t have If you don’t have a sense of security in you, you can’t bring a sense of security to others. Only when you have love in you, you feel love, and you like yourself, will you truly like others from the heart. When you have a healthy and safe Self-image, you will be able to rebuild good relationships.