夫妻平行線—-箴言16:24［良言如同蜂房, 使心覺甘甜, 使骨得醫治.］夫妻倆不太說話交談, 怎麼會有好的婚姻呢？所以夫妻要學習談心. 這是婚姻𥚃第一個要刻意去做的事. 婚姻有一個很大的危機, 就是戀愛的時候, 兩個人總有説不完的話. 總覺得時間太少. 無論對方説什麼, 我們都覺得很有興趣. 而什麼都想與對方説. 那個時候, 兩個人在溝通上, 在心靈契合上, 完全沒有問題. 隨著結婚日子越久, 兩個人相處, 談話的時間就越來越少. 而談話的品質也越來越差. 再加上夫妻相處, 難免有衝突傷害, 婚姻危機因而產生. 據調查數據, 婚姻失敗的原因其中有86%是因為溝通失敗, 每天交談時間不超過四分鐘. 夫妻兩個不太説話交談, 不溝通或是溝通不良, 怎麼會有好的婚姻呢？ 所以夫妻要學習談心. 這是婚姻𥚃第一個要刻意去做的事. 如果談心都不能, 那你其他都説不上. 我們應該學習談心, 提升夫妻溝通的層次, 進入對方的心理. 不要使夫妻成為兩條沒有交集的平行線.
The Parallel Line of Husband and Wife – Proverbs 16:24 [Good words are like a hive, sweet to the heart and healing to the bones.] How can there be a good marriage if the husband and wife do not talk much? So couples should learn to talk. This is the first thing to do deliberately in marriage 𥚃 . There is a big crisis in marriage, that is, when you are in love, two people always have something to talk about. They always feel that there is too little time. We all feel very interested in what the other party says. And we want to say everything to the other party. At that time, the two people had no problem at all in terms of communication and spiritual harmony. And the quality of the conversation is getting worse and worse. Coupled with the relationship between husband and wife, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and harm, and marital crisis will arise. According to survey data, 86% of the reasons for marriage failure are communication failure. , The conversation time should be no more than four minutes a day . If the husband and wife do not talk much, do not communicate or communicate poorly, how can there be a good marriage? So couples should learn to talk. This is the first thing to do deliberately in marriage. Make couples two parallel lines that do not intersect.