家庭和樂的祕訣—-哥林多前書13:7-8［凡事包容, 凡事相信. 凡事盼望, 凡事忍耐. 愛是永不止息.］生活中人們其實不是怕你會做錯事, 最怕是錯了不認錯. 甚至還要講是別人的錯. 這樣的心態自然到哪裡吵到哪裡. 先認錯才會天下太平. 一個關係的回復要從後悔開始. 如果各持己見, 就很難達到關係回復的目標. 關係恢復, 不是要求對方改變來配合我們. 講話語氣非常重要. 如果你一付盛氣凌人尖酸刻薄, 只會讓結果更糟糕. 很多夫妻嘴上説道歉, 結果又再吵一架. 不當的道歉反而會火上添油. 我們要學習説合睦的話, 關係才有恢復的可能. 先向對方道歉是明智之舉. 詩篇18:25［慈愛的人, 你以慈愛待他.］今天你用慈愛的態度對待他人, 別人也會同樣的以慈善愛的態度對待你. 這是上帝的應許, 當你以慈愛待人, 一生一世也是必有恩惠慈愛跟隨你. 今天邀請你改變與家人相處的方式, 相信你的家必定充滿笑聲與幸福.
The secret of family harmony – 1 Corinthians 13:7-8 [Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.] People in life are not actually afraid that you will do something wrong. The biggest fear is not to admit the mistake. Or even to say that it is the fault of others. This kind of mentality will naturally cause quarrels. Only when you admit the mistake first will the world be peaceful. The recovery of a relationship must start with regret. If everyone holds their own opinions, it will be very difficult. It is difficult to achieve the goal of relationship recovery. Relationship recovery does not mean asking the other party to change to cooperate with us. The tone of speech is very important. If you are domineering and harsh, it will only make the result worse. Many couples say they apologize, only to have another quarrel. An inappropriate apology will only add fuel to the fire. We must learn to speak harmoniously before the relationship can be restored. It is wise to apologize to the other person first. Psalm 18:25 [To a loving person, treat him with kindness. .] If you treat others with kindness today, others will also treat you with kindness and love. This is God’s promise. When you treat others with kindness, kindness and love will follow you throughout your life. Today I invite you to change The way you get along with your family, I believe your home will be filled with laughter and happiness.