真正的愛—-約翰一書4:7-8［親愛的弟兄啊, 我們應當彼此相愛, 因為愛是從神來的. 凡有愛心的, 都是由神而生, 並且認識神. 沒有愛心的, 就不認識神, 因為神就是愛.］愛不是在彼此身上尋找各自的需求, 愛不是我要什麼, 而是我能給予什麼. 真正的愛是把對方看成自己的一部份. 每一個人都是愛自己的, 而愛一個人就是你已成為我的一部份. 所以愛一個人就像愛自己一樣. 愛花的人會默默為花澆水, 施肥, 培養, 繁殖, 噓寒問暖, 不就是將花當成自己的一部份嗎？ 而這就是喜歡與愛的區別. 在這一個凡事都以自己為出發點的時代, 愛自己而不是愛別人, 功利的愛, 有條件的愛已成為社會主流. 很不幸的, 婚姻已不再是神聖的身份行為, 而成為契約. 在結婚之前要先設定婚前協議, 為離婚先做好準備, 以免離婚時吃虧. 這種愛的方式, 是愛自己, 不是真正的愛, 更不是神的愛. 愛自己是再自然不過的事, 真正的愛是將對方看成自己. 母愛的偉大就是將嬰兒看成自己的一部份. 偉大的母愛甚至願意犧牲自己, 成全子女. 愛就是無怨無悔的付出, 心甘情願的給予. 傳統中華文化的24孝, 就是偉大的愛, 而不是從人自私角度認為的愚孝. 在聖經中記載, 耶穌為了拯救世人的罪惡來到人間. 耶穌被鞭打, 甚至被釘在十字架上, 這一切都是因為耶穌愛世人. 約翰一書3:16［主為我們捨命, 我們從此知道什麼是愛.] 意思是說從上了十字架的耶穌就可知道愛是捨己, 愛就是給予. 一個只想得的, 不知何為愛. 愛的內涵就是捨己. 我們常說愛自己的家人, 愛自己的配偶. 但你願意為他們犧牲自己的時間, 金錢, 面子嗎？關於愛, 耶穌為我們做了最好的示範. 今天希望我們能夠成為真正付出愛的人. 你的給予將會變得無比自然. 你和家人, 配偶朋友, 社會, 國家, 與世界的關係也會變得更加美好.
True love – 1 John 4:7-8 [Dear brothers, we should love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. No Whoever loves does not know God, because God is love.] Love is not looking for each other’s needs. Love is not what I want, but what I can give. Real love is to regard the other person as a part of yourself. . Everyone loves themselves, and loving someone means that you have become a part of me. So loving someone is like loving yourself. People who love flowers will silently water, fertilize, cultivate and reproduce them. , greetings and greetings, doesn’t it mean treating flowers as a part of oneself? And this is the difference between liking and loving. In this era where everything is based on oneself, loving oneself rather than loving others, utilitarian love, and conditional love have become the mainstream of society. Unfortunately, marriage is no longer A sacred status act becomes a contract. Before getting married, you must set up a prenuptial agreement and prepare for divorce to avoid suffering a loss during divorce. This way of love is self-love, not true love, and it is not God’s. Love. Loving oneself is a natural thing. Real love is to regard the other person as oneself. The greatness of maternal love is to regard the baby as a part of oneself. Great maternal love is even willing to sacrifice oneself to fulfill the children. Love is without resentment. Pay without regrets and give willingly. The 24 filial piety in traditional Chinese culture is great love, not foolish filial piety from the perspective of selfishness. It is recorded in the Bible that Jesus came to the world to save the sins of the world. Jesus was whipped. , even being nailed to the cross, all this is because Jesus loved the world. 1 John 3:16 [The Lord laid down his life for us, and from this we know what love is.] This means that we can know love from Jesus who went to the cross. It is self-sacrifice, love is giving. A person who only wants to get does not know what love is. The connotation of love is self-sacrifice. We often say that we love our family and our spouse. But you are willing to sacrifice your time and money for them. , face? Regarding love, Jesus gave us the best example. Today, I hope that we can become people who truly give love. Your giving will become extremely natural. Your relationship with your family, spouse and friends, society, country, and the world will also It will become even better.