化干戈為玉帛—-以弗所書4:2-3［凡事謙虛, 溫柔, 忍耐, 用愛心互相寛容, 用和平彼此聯絡, 竭力保守聖靈所𧶽合而為一的心.］當我們面對爭議時, 常常只看對方的問題, 卻不見自己的問題. 當我們指責別人是麻煩製造者時, 很多時候自己才是真正troublemaker. 當我們比較中西經典, 常常會發現彼此有相通之處. 譬如易經第六卦訟卦九五”訟, 元吉.” 及以弗所書4:2-3都指向化干戈為玉帛. 面對爭議, 如果我們退一步, 常常會發現海濶天空. 現代社會的善良老百姓常常面對訴訟的威脅. 由於制度不良, 濫訟成風. 不良律師們唯利是圖, 唯恐天下不亂. 使大多數人成為訴訟的犧牲品. 善良老百姓面對訴訟時, 首先要想到以和為貴, 竭盡所能使雙方心平氣和, 爭取最佳的和解方案. 千萬不要不顧一切打官司打到底. 訴訟不是出氣的工具, 也無法追求到事實的真相. 只有上帝才能瞭解你的心以及你的所作所為. 法官, 律師, 甚至家人也愛莫能助. 當事人所受的苦只有自己最清楚. 和解, 和解, 再和解, 才能化干戈為玉帛. 上帝才是至高無上的裁判者. 世間的訴訟只是一塲塲殘酷的遊戲. 我們要以經典為依歸, 知所進退, 則近道矣. 當年輕時, 我們要改變世界. 當年長時要知道如何改變自己. 環境也會因著我們的改變而有所不同. 腓立比書2:4［各人不要單顧自己的事, 也要顧別人的事.］謙卑是我們內心的狀態, 也是為人的態度. 謙卑使我們免於自以為是. 使我們尊重別人, 向別人學習. 今天上帝要祝福你, 透過謙卑, 化干戈為玉卑, 使你受到多人的敬重與愛戴.
Turn hostility into friendship – Ephesians 4:2-3 [Be humble and gentle, patient with one another, forgiving one another in love, striving to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.] When we face controversy , often only looking at the other person’s problems, but not our own. When we accuse others of being troublemakers, we are often the real troublemakers. When we compare Chinese and Western classics, we often find similarities with each other. For example, the Book of Changes The sixth hexagram, Litigation, hexagram ninety-five, “Litigation, Yuan Ji.” and Ephesians 4:2-3 all point to turning hostility into friendship. In the face of controversy, if we take a step back, we will often find that the sea and the sky are changing. Kind-hearted people in modern society often face Threat to litigation. Due to the bad system, excessive litigation has become common. Bad lawyers are only interested in profit and fear that the world will not be chaotic, making most people become victims of litigation. When good people face litigation, they must first think of peace as the most important thing and do their best. Let both parties be at peace and strive for the best settlement. Never fight the lawsuit to the end at all costs. Litigation is not a tool to vent your anger, and it cannot pursue the truth. Only God can understand your heart and what you do. Judge , lawyers, and even family members are helpless. Only the client knows the suffering best. Reconciliation, reconciliation, and reconciliation can turn conflicts into friendship. God is the supreme judge. Litigation in the world is just a cruel game. We must use We should rely on the classics and know how to advance and retreat, so we can take the shortcut. When we are young, we want to change the world. When we are older, we must know how to change ourselves. The environment will also be different because of our changes. Philippians 2:4 [Each of you should not only look out for your own business, but also look out for the business of others.] Humility is the state of our heart and the attitude of people. Humility prevents us from being self-righteous. It makes us respect others and learn from others. Today God wants to bless You, through humility, turned hostility into humiliation, making you respected and loved by many people.