與成功有約—-列王記上2:1-3大衛的死期臨近了, 就囑咐他的兒子所羅門說：［我現在要走世人必走的路, 所以你當剛強, 作大丈夫, 遵守耶和華你神所吩咐的, 照著摩西律法上所寫的行主的道, 謹守他的律例, 誡命, 典章, 法度. 這樣, 你無論做甚麼事, 不拘往何處去, 盡都亨通.］這是一篇父子相傳與成功有約的典範. ［1）積極主動—-帖撒羅尼迦前書5:16-18［要常常喜樂, 不住的禱告, 凡事謝恩. 因為這是神在基督裏向你們所定的旨意.］這節經文教導我們在任何事上保持喜樂與感恩的心態, 並藉由禱告, 讓上帝成為我們抒發心情及壓力的管道. 從中獲取從神來的安慰與力量. 成功所需的第一項習慣不僅是擁有正面向上的心態, 其中也包含不把自己的不成功不順利歸咎於他人或環境. 當中最重要的就是不抱怨. 遇到問題時要先行學會, 勒住自己的舌頭, 雅各書1:26. 一不小心就給魔鬼留餘地, 使得問題往更糟的方向發展. 箴言18:21［生死在舌頭的權下.］至少選擇靜默, 不要做聲, 出埃及記14:14. 因為抱怨從來不能解決任何問題, 也沒有任何意義. （2）以終為始. 箴言29:18［沒有異象, 民就放肆, 惟遵守律法的, 便為有福.］可以解釋為人若是沒有看見目標, 就會沒有原則, 人生會走向混亂. 而有了目標, 並且按原則行事的人 則是能蒙受祝福. 為自己的人生設定一個明確的目標. 真正的成功需達到全面性的成功, 體現出活的價值. 不妨想想自己葬禮的光景. 希望有多少人参加你的葬禮, 希望別人怎樣評價你, 怎樣懷念你. 你對人生終點的想像, 會很大程度決定你人生的方向. 以神為中心的人生. 才能獲取生命全備的美好. （3）要事第一. 箴言3:5-6［你要專心仰賴耶和華, 不可倚靠自己的聰明. 在你一切所行的事上都要認定他, 他必指引你的路.］路加福音16:10［人在最小的事上忠心, 在大事上也忠心.］每件事要依照它的緊急性及重要性, 安排事情的優先順序. 不處理也是一種處理方式. 有時重要的事不一定是一件大事, 甚至常常會是看似不起眼的小事. 為上帝而堅守祂看重的事. （4）多贏思維—-腓立比書2:4-5［各人不要單顧自己的事, 也要顧別人的事. 你們當以基督的心為心.］人與人交往互動時, 有四種結果, 雙贏, 我贏你輸, 你贏我輸及雙輸. 譬如俄烏戰爭是雙輸的典範, 同時中美雙贏又是另一典範. 要達成雙赢首先在為自己設想的時候也要為對方設想. 學習顧念別人, 如同主顧念我們一様. 我們更要創造上帝, 你, 我三贏的局面. 而中國成功調停伊朗及沙烏地紛爭創造伊, 沙, 中及上帝四贏的局面. 如果中國調停俄烏停戰成功, 將形成多贏的局面, 真是功德無量. 因為［使人合睦的人有福了.］馬太福音5:9. ［天父在暗中察看, 必然報答你］馬太福音6:4. （5］知己知彼—-馬太福音7:1-2［你們不要論斷人, 免得你們被論斷. 因為你們怎樣論斷人, 也必怎様被論斷. 你們用甚麼量器量給人, 也必用甚麼量器給你們.］你要徹底瞭解對方, 同時要讓對方徹底瞭解你. 守住三千萬：千萬不要自以為是. 千萬不要任意批評, 千萬不要亂下結論. （6）統合綜效—-傳道書4:12［有人攻勝孤身一人, 若有二人便能敵擋他；三股合成的繩子不容易折斷.］統合綜效即1+1>2, 求同存異與取長補短. 羅馬書12:4-5［正如我們一個身子上有好些肢體, 肢體也不都不是一樣的用處. 我們這許多人, 在基督裏成為一身, 互相聯絡作肢體, 也是如此.] 腓立比書2:3-4［凡事不可結黨, 不可貪圖虛的榮耀, 只要存心謙卑, 各人看別人比自己強. 各人不要單顧自己的事, 也要顧別人的事.］這兩節經文可以明白天父的心意, 建立團隊不是用來爭兢, 也不是用來結黨. 團隊合作是要團結一心, 來完成共同的目標. （7）不斷更新—-羅馬書12:2［不要效法這個世界, 只要心意更新而變化, 叫你們察驗何為神的善良, 純全, 可喜悅的旨意.］包含身體, 精神, 知識和社會關係四方面的更新. 並持續更新屬天的心思意念. 親愛的天父：感謝你賜予我們生命和意志, 讓我們瞭解成功所需的心思意念, 使我們與主更親近. 在世上享受神所賜下的全備豐盛. 藉著今天這個禱告, 將成功的七個要素呈現在祢的面前, 求主賜我能力和智慧去它們. 求神幫助我擁有一顆積極主動的心, 不再說出抱怨和喪氣的話. 單單相信神的恩典能使我克服一切的困難. 求主引導我明確的人生目標, 使我成就以神為中心的人生. 在凡事都以基督的心為心. 並在小事上忠心. 看重上帝心意為最重要的事, 追求合神心意的生命. 用生活來實踐神的國度. 求主賜我謙卑的心, 讓我能有效地與他人合作及溝通. 建立合諧的關係. 時刻提醒我尊重他人的價值和差異. 並以基督的愛與人相處. 學習多傾聽少評評, 與他人產生共情共振. 時常看見別人的優點, 並且適時肯定對方的長處, 使雙方互利共贏. 求神幫助我熱愛生命, 通過持續學習和成長來精進自己. 並求神每天更新我的心思意念, 使我有足夠能力和信仰, 享受成功及豐盛, 擁有基督得勝的生命, 感謝父神垂聽孩子的禱告. 奉耶穌基督之名, 誠心所願, 阿們！
A pact with success – 1 Kings 2:1-3 As the time for David’s death approached, he charged his son Solomon, saying, “I want to go in the way that the world must go, so be strong and be a man. Observe the commandment of the LORD your God, and walk in his way, as it is written in the law of Moses, and keep his statutes, commandments, judgments, and testimonies. So whatever you do, no matter where you go, May everything prosper.] This is an example of a covenant with success passed down from father to son. [1) Be proactive—1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 [Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in everything. For this is the will of God in Christ for you.] This verse teaches us to maintain a joyful and grateful attitude in everything, and through prayer, let God be the channel through which we express our emotions and stress. Get from it Comfort and strength from God. The first habit required for success is not only to have a positive attitude, but also to not blame others or the environment for your own failure. The most important thing is not to complain. Encounter When you encounter problems, you must first learn to restrain your tongue, James 1:26. If you are not careful, you will leave room for the devil to make the problem worse. Proverbs 18:21 [Life and death are under the power of the tongue.] At least. Choose silence and keep silent, Exodus 14:14. Because complaining can never solve any problem and has no meaning. (2) Begin with the end in mind. Proverbs 29:18 [Where there is no vision, the people are presumptuous, but they obey Blessed are those who follow the law.] It can be explained that if a person does not see the goal, he will have no principles, and his life will go into chaos. But those who have a goal and act according to the principles will be blessed. Set settings for your own life A clear goal. Real success needs to achieve comprehensive success and reflect the value of life. Think about the situation of your own funeral. How many people do you hope to attend your funeral? How do you hope others will evaluate you and how you will be remembered. What do you think of your funeral? The imagination of the end of your life will largely determine the direction of your life. Only a life centered on God can obtain the full beauty of life. (3) First things first. Proverbs 3:5-6 [Trust in the Lord with all your heart , Don’t rely on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths.] Luke 16:10 [He who is faithful in the least will also be faithful in the great.] Everything should be prioritized according to its urgency and importance. Not dealing with it is also a way of dealing with it. Sometimes important things are not necessarily big things, and are often even seemingly insignificant things. Because God and stick to the things that are important to Him. (4) Win-win thinking – Philippians 2:4-5 [Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Let your mind be the same as that of Christ. . ] When people interact with each other, there are four outcomes, win-win, I win and you lose, you win and I lose, and both lose. For example, the Russia-Ukraine war is a model of win-win, while the win-win situation between China and the United States is another model. To To achieve a win-win situation, first of all, when thinking about yourself, you must also think about the other party. Learn to care about others, just as the Lord cares about us. We must also create a win-win situation for God, you, and me. China successfully mediates the disputes between Iran and Saudi Arabia Create a four-win situation for Iraq, Saudi Arabia, China and God. If China succeeds in mediating the armistice between Russia and Ukraine, it will create a win-win situation, which is truly a blessing. Because [Blessed are those who make peace.] Matthew 5:9 . [Heavenly Father sees in secret and will reward you] Matthew 6:4. (5) Know yourself and your enemy—Matthew 7:1-2 [Judge not, lest you be judged. For how you judge, You will be judged accordingly. The measure you use to measure someone else will be measured to you.] You must understand the other person thoroughly, and at the same time, let the other person understand you thoroughly. Guard thirty million: Never be self-righteous. Never be self-righteous. Don’t criticize arbitrarily, and don’t jump to conclusions. (6) Synergy – Ecclesiastes 4:12 [Someone can defeat a man alone, but two people can withstand him; a rope of three strands is not easily broken.] Integration and synergy is 1+1>2, seeking common ground while reserving differences and learning from each other’s strengths. Romans 12:4-5 [Just as we have many members in one body, and all the members do not have the same purpose. We, who are many, become one body in Christ , and so it is with each other as members.] Philippians 2:3-4 [Do nothing from selfish ambitions or vain glory, but in lowliness of mind let each one consider others better than himself. Let no one look only to his own interests. We should also take care of other people’s affairs.] These two verses can help us understand Heavenly Father’s will. Building a team is not about fighting or forming cliques. Teamwork is about uniting as one to accomplish a common goal. (7) Constantly renewing – Romans 12:2 [Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is the good, acceptable and perfect will of God.] Including body, spirit, knowledge and society Renewal of the four aspects of the relationship. And continue to renew the heavenly mind and heart. Dear Heavenly Father: Thank you for giving us life and will, allowing us to understand the thoughts and thoughts needed for success, so that we can get closer to the Lord. Enjoy what God has on earth. The complete and abundant gift. Through today’s prayer, I will present the seven elements of success in front of you. Ask the Lord to give me the ability and wisdom to deal with them. Ask the Lord to help me have a proactive heart and no longer speak out. Complaints and words of discouragement. Simply believing in God’s grace can enable me to overcome all difficulties. Ask the Lord to guide me to have a clear goal in life and enable me to achieve a God-centered life. Keep the mind of Christ in everything. And in the little things. Be loyal. Value God’s will as the most important thing, pursue a life that is in line with God’s will, and use your life to practice the kingdom of God. Please give me a humble heart so that I can effectively cooperate and communicate with others. Establish a harmonious relationship. Relationships. Always remind me to respect the value and differences of others. And get along with others with the love of Christ. Learn to listen more and judge less, and empathize with others. Always see the advantages of others, and affirm the strengths of others in a timely manner, so that both parties can Mutual benefit and win-win results. May God help me love life and improve myself through continuous learning and growth. And may God renew my mind and heart every day so that I have enough ability and faith to enjoy success and abundance, and have a victorious life of Christ. Thank you Father God hears the prayers of the children. In the name of Jesus Christ, I sincerely wish, Amen!