用愛調和（1）傾聽, 不要打斷. 雅各書1:19［你們各人要快快的聽, 慢慢的說, 慢慢的動怒.］（2）說話, 不要指責. 雅各書1:20［人的怒氣不能成就神的義.］（3）給予, 不要保留. 箴言3:27［你手若有行善的力量, 不可推辭, 就當向那應得的人施行.］（4）祈禱, 不要停止. 以弗所書6:18［靠著聖靈, 隨時多方禱告祈求, 並要在此警醒不倦, 為眾聖徒祈求.］（5）回答, 不要爭執. 羅馬書14:19［我們務要追求和睦的事, 與彼此建立德行的事.］（6）愛人, 不要虛假.羅馬書12:9-10［愛人不可虛假, 惡要厭惡, 善要親近. 愛弟兄, 要彼此親熱. 恭敬人, 要彼此推讓.］(7)對人, 不要抱怨. 腓立比書2:14[凡所行的, 都不要發怨言, 起爭論.” (8) 信任, 不要動搖. 希伯來書11:6［人非有信, 就不能得神的喜悅.］（9）原諒, 不要懲罰. 以弗所書4:32［並要以恩慈相待, 存憐憫的心, 彼此饒恕, 正如神在基督裏饒恕了你們一樣.］（10）𠄘諾, 不要忘記. 民數記30:2［人若向耶和華許願或起誓, 要約束自己, 就不可食言, 必要按口中所出的一切話行.］
Tempered with love (1) Listen, don’t interrupt. James 1:19 [Each of you should be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger.] (2) Speak, don’t accuse. James James 1:20 [Man’s anger cannot accomplish the righteousness of God.] (3) Give, do not withhold. Proverbs 3:27 [If it is in your hand to do good, do not refuse it, but do it to the one who deserves it. ] (4) Pray, and do not cease. Ephesians 6:18 [Pray at all times with all kinds of supplications and supplications in the Spirit, and be alert in this without tiring to make supplications for all the saints.] (5) Answer, do not quarrel. Roman Joshua 14:19 [Let us pursue things that make peace and things that build up virtue with one another.] (6) Love others without falsehood. Romans 12:9-10 [Love without hypocrisy, hate evil, and hold close to good. Love Brothers, be affectionate to one another. Respect one another and give way to one another.] (7) Do not complain about others. Philippians 2:14 [Do everything without murmuring or quarreling.” (8) Trust , do not waver. Hebrews 11:6 [Without faith it is impossible to please God.] (9) Forgive, do not punish. Ephesians 4:32 [Be kind to one another, showing mercy. Forgive one another, just as God in Christ also forgave you.] (10) Do not forget your promise. Numbers 30:2 [If a man makes a vow or an oath to the LORD and binds himself, he must not break his promise; it must be Do according to every word that comes out of your mouth.]