誤會—-哥林多前書4:5［所以時候未到, 什麼都不要論斷. 只等主來, 祂要照出暗中的隱情, 顯明人心的意念. 那時各人要從神那裏得著稱讚.］［故事］有一次孔子受困在陳國與蔡感一帶地區, 有七天沒有嚐過米飯的滋味. 有一天下午, 他的弟子顏回要來一些米煮飯. 飯快要熟的時候, 孔子看見顏回居然用手抓鍋中的飯在吃. 孔子故意裝作沒有看見. 當顏回進來請孔子吃飯時, 孔站起來說”剛才我夢見祖先告訴我, 食物要先獻給尊長才能進食.” 顏回一聽, 連忙解釋說”夫子誤會了. 剛才我是看見有煤灰掉到鍋中, 所以把弄髒的飯粒拿起來吃了.” 孔子嘆息道”人可信的是眼睛, 而眼睛也有不可靠的時候, 所可依靠的是心. 但心也有不足的時候. 弟子們要記住, 知人真是一件不容易的事啊！”. [思考］親耳所聽, 親眼所見也未必是真. 每一件事情背後都有其發生的原因, 探討事情背後的主因, 以他人的角度去看事情, 人心之間的距離將會更近. 你是否也曾誤會過別人？你是否不給別人解釋的機會？讓我們學習向受委屈的當事人道歉. ［禱告］親愛的天父, 我們與人相處的時間, 很容易發生摩擦, 產生誤會. 求主赦免我們. 很多時候只憑著眼見, 心想而下判斷, 誤會別人, 求主幫助我不在背後論斷, 而是以愛心彼此交往, 有更多的相助和溝通, 有寬大的心, 凡事交託信靠祢, 因為唯有祢是審判的主, 能顯明人心的意念. 禱告是奉主耶穌基督的名, 阿們！
Misunderstanding – 1 Corinthians 4:5 [Therefore do not judge anything before the time comes. But until the Lord comes, He will reveal the hidden things of darkness and reveal the thoughts of the heart. Then everyone will receive from God [Story] Once Confucius was trapped in the area of Chen Guo and Cai Gan, and had not tasted rice for seven days. One afternoon, his disciple Yan Hui asked for some rice to cook. The rice was almost cooked. At that time, Confucius saw Yan Hui eating the rice in the pot with his hands. Confucius deliberately pretended not to see it. When Yan Hui came in to invite Confucius to eat, Confucius stood up and said, “I just dreamed that my ancestors told me that food must be offered first.” Only when you give it to your elders can you eat.” When Yan Hui heard this, he quickly explained, “Master misunderstood. I saw coal ash falling into the pot just now, so I picked up the dirty rice and ate it.” Confucius sighed and said, “People can’t be trusted. The most important thing is the eyes, and sometimes the eyes are unreliable. What you can rely on is the heart. But sometimes the heart is not enough. Disciples should remember that it is not easy to know people!” [Thinking] What you hear with your own eyes Listen, what you see with your own eyes may not be true. There is a reason behind everything. Discuss the main reasons behind things and see things from other people’s perspectives. The distance between people will be closer. Have you ever experienced this? Have you ever misunderstood others? Do you not give others a chance to explain? Let us learn to apologize to those who have been wronged. [Prayer] Dear Heavenly Father, when we spend time with others, it is easy for us to have friction and misunderstandings. Please forgive us. Many times we only make judgments based on what we see and what we think. , misunderstanding others, please help me not to judge behind others, but to interact with each other in love, have more help and communication, have a broad heart, and trust you in everything, because only you are the Lord of judgment and can reveal The thoughts of the human heart. This prayer is in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, Amen!